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The two protagonists involved in this article are my friends. The girl is my friend from the middle school to the university. The boy is an introvert and awkward person and a mountaineering enthusiast. He goes to a mountain every year. The girl is a staff member at a bank, beautiful and lovely. They are famous for being a group of monks in our group. In the past three years, I have witnessed the girl turning her into a gentle and virtuous little woman from a fragile and pretty little girl (she is the only daughter in the family). I always thought that the boy had the secret of cultivating a woman. If it weren’t for girls with tears on the phone for three hours tonight, I would have thought that climbing was very romantic and girls were happy...
I did not ask for the girl's permission to write this story here (I believe she would not blame me), hoping to let the many mountain friends look and feel, and stand behind you, the feelings of those who love you.
(In order to facilitate the presentation, I use the first person. If there is a friend who is familiar with them, I hope to keep it confidential. Do not speak it out.)
My boyfriend is a mountaineering enthusiast. He goes mountain climbing every year. We have been with us three times in the past three years. In the past, I always thought that climbing was a very distant thing. However, since I knew him, this strange thing came to me at once. I began to actively or passively understand many things about mountain climbing.
Among these things, what worries me most is security. I have read many books and reports on mountaineering and mountaineering. More and more afraid. Since I knew that he had a mountaineering because of equipment problems affecting his physical strength, I began to study various equipment and buy him the best equipment from various sources, such as backpacks, shoes, and mountain watches. I know that equipment is not a panacea. , but at least a little more safety factor! But just like that, I'm still scared. Every time he walks, I will laugh and smile hard. I dare not let tears fall. It is unlucky. And I also know that if I cry, he will worry about me. Now. But every time he comes back I will cry and cry when I see him. The first reason was that I always endured tears when I went out. I could finally cry when he came back. Second, he would become black and thin every time he returned. However, every time he washed the photos from the mountains and showed them to me, I would be happy again because at that time he was always happy as a child, and the scenery was beautiful. Although I can't really appreciate his climbing feelings, I can feel his happiness.
I usually try not to go to the Mountain Forum and their club forum site, I am afraid to see their mountaineering plan. However, once he went up the mountain, I would open all related forums all day and refresh every few seconds. There is no signal on the phone to enter Shanshan. The website is the only source. I hope to get their latest news and I'm afraid to see all the news. I'm so scared. Whether it's theirs or not, it will make me sad. When I saw the news about the incident of my grandfather, I cried for a long time, although I Do not know him, but the fate of any mountain friend may fall on his head. In the mountains, only half or less of the fate of man is determined by himself. The opportunities given to the mountains are equal.
I also thought of going with him, but I was physically ill since childhood and my physical strength was poor. We have been to Lhasa once. When I first arrived in Lhasa, I reacted badly to the plateau. I couldn’t eat anything for a few days, and I was scared that he had brought me back without going anywhere. I think I am afraid that this situation will not even go to the base camp, or do not get tired of him.
Did you tell him not to go? How can I not let him go mountain climbing? ! He was so introverted and talkative, and every time I mentioned his mountains, the blue sky, the hardships and joy of climbing, he would say a lot, and his eyes would be transparent. At that time, he was the most handsome and happiest. Don't you understand? That's his dream! There are too many people in the world who have too many real people, and there are several people who can insist on realizing their own beautiful dreams. Those who dare to realize their dreams are truly brave. When I love him, I can't fold the wings of his dreams. Not only that, but I should also help him to sew a bigger pair of wings to make him fly higher and higher!
But my mother did not like him. For so many years, she always urged me to break up with him. The reason is because he likes climbing. As soon as the mountaineering investment is great, almost all of the money he earns during his years of work has been invested. There is no point in saving for marriage. Second, the risk factor is large. Maybe there will be an accident. I can refute these two points. I can say I don't care. However, my mother said the last point made me cry. She said that he is a selfish person. If it is not selfish, I love him so much. How can he ignore my feelings and only care about his own hobbies and dreams? Mother said that the root of his love is the mountain and not me! I didn’t argue. I knew my mother was distressed and I loved me. Every time when he went hiking, I couldn’t get enough food and sleep well for more than ten or twenty days. Every time I came back I would A serious illness. This he did not know, he thought I would have a periodic illness every year because of seasonal weather, because he is always in the same season. But Mom knows the real reason. Every time he goes out, I don’t know what to do. I’ll find a lot of things to do. I’ll pick up his home again and again, but more often I’ll be in a daze, often with tears falling. All these mothers saw it. What about him? Does he know? I don't know if he thought about the kind of heartache I felt waiting for him at home. I believe he loves me. I do not believe that he will be a selfish person.
Although my mother does not agree with her, she still loves me. As long as I continue to stick to it, she will always agree.
I used to think that I was an optimistic person. But now I think I am a pessimistic person. Every time I go out, I will think in the worst direction. I think more and more, I feel even more sad. I don't know what to do if I really do something. I admire the girlfriend of another boy in their club. She is in good physical condition. Now she is exercising madly. She said that she will go uphill with her boyfriend in the future. If he falls, she will also jump. I know her idea is too innocent and too impractical, but I still admire her.
I know he will miss me when he goes out. He always takes my photos. But I hope he will take good care of himself and protect him. I only need him to be safe if he is happy. The feeling of standing behind a climber is really painful.
Postscript: The girl said many things intermittently. In order to protect personal privacy, I deleted a lot of details and simply put it. The reason for writing this down is to tell many mountain friends that while they are fulfilling their dreams, they will pay more attention to those who stand behind you and love you. When in the mountains, when it is difficult to weigh the summit or retreat, consider it for them.
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